here’s the thing. it’s okay to have preferences, for instance, one can prefer green eyes over blue and that doesn’t say anything about their moral character. HOWEVER if that same person started telling blue-eyed people how gross their eyes look and how they don’t understand why they don’t wear colored contacts to make themselves more attractive, they are crossing a line and they are being a frickin’ asshole. Preferring to be hairless or girls who shave is not, in itself, a bad thing - but policing someone else’s body IS. point blank. don’t let anyone make you feel like your body is gross and if they do, they’re in the wrong. xo